How to Make Women Come to You

Geplaatst op 07-02-2023

Roosh asked an interesting question:

Let’s say that I put you in a brand new city. For one year the rule is that you can only cold approach 5 girls a week. You can’t use internet. You can’t do typical club or street game where you’re doing mass approaches. But you still want to plow through a large number of women. What would you do? How would you adjust your game? What type of lifestyle would you aim for where women are coming to you?

I would follow these 5 fashion rules. I’d buy Starting Strength, Body of a Spartan, or Jim Wendler’s 5/3/1 and follow the program to the letter.

I would juice. Your skin is your largest organ. What you eat comes out through your pores. Eat some vegetables and tell me you don’t smell better to women.

Now you have the heavy lifting done. If you have good style and a body, women will start coming near you. In the real world, that’s enough. She comes to you, hovers around, and then you open her. In this challenge, however, you have to make her open you.

To get a woman to open you, you need to give her something to talk about. Be a douche bag and she will talk to you.

I would buy one accessory that pops. I got a white Nixon player watch on dc1000’s recommendation. The watch is gaudy as hell. That’s by design.

Women would always say something about the watch. Even a girl says, “That watch is gaudy,” she is talking to you, right? Wear some khakis and an Express men polo shirt; see how many women initiate conversation. A $125 watch will get you more sex than Rolex.

I often wear Ray-Bans at night. You know how many women have stopped to say, “What kind of douche bag wears sun glasses inside?!” As illogical as it may be, women are attracted to men that anger them.

Or maybe wear vibrant shoes. It can be anything. Just pop.

If I were only going to be in a city for a year and was putting my career on hold, I’d pick up a job working at a grocery store in a young, upscale and/or gentrifying neighborhood. (Guys always say, “I’d work as a bartender.” Good luck with that. If you’re lucky they’ll hire you as a bar back, i.e., a goon who carries up cases of beer from the basement cooler to the real bartender.)

Trader Joe’s or Whole Foods would be ideal. When we started talking about cooking, she’d say, “That sounds good.” Then I’d tell her, “Come over sometime and we’ll cook dinner.”

I would get a dog. If you have a well-trained dog, women will stop you on the street to pet it and admire you.

The only thing cuter than a boy and his dog is a boy with a baby. If my friends had kids, I would babysit. Take a kid out in a stroller to the park where the au pairs work.

Find a sports bar. Wear a piece of sports apparel. Women will ask you about your favorite player or favorite team. If you’re in a major U.S. city, find out when soccer games are played. Often foreign women flock to those venues.

Follow the above advice and women will open you. There is better news.

You aren’t forced to stay silent like a coward until a woman opens you. The question is hypothetical. Indeed, waiting for a woman to give you permission to talk to her is pathetic.

Imagine how many women you will meet if you’re in shape, dress sharply, and roll out with a dog? Remember, you don’t need an invitation.